First of all this somewhat relates to my previous advice entry. Its all about the image. When guys are around other guys they usually brag about their girlfriend when the subject is brought up. However when that guy is actually with his girlfriend he is the sweet caring man that he is. Like i said before the reason for this is their image.
Think about it... what would a guy look like to his buddies if he got all mushie gushie about his girlfriend in front of his pals? Also, the things he brags about are usually things he wouldn't want to say in front of his girlfriend. This makes him look like he is superior and farther along life to his peers. This also gives the thought that this guy is dominant or "wears the pants". Then again when the two of you are together alone, he becomes cooperative and willing to compromise.
You have to remember that a mans ego is very sensitive. He has to look good in front of his friends. Testosterone flares up and the alpha male instinct is brought into play. There is a constant competition, even if the competitors are friends, to be on top or the "coolest".
I hope this information was helpful :)
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